I feel I’ve hit a block. Runners get to it. Writers get to it. Apparently, minimalists get to it.
Am I A Minimalist?
It is hard to define where I am on the path to Less Equals More. I know what I want. I can see with my mind’s eye the ideal I am striving for.
But I can see with my real eyes what my house looks like right now. I wouldn’t say it is a mess. In fact, the load on my shoulders feels much lighter, knowing what I have accomplished.
However, you wouldn’t be able to tell I have done anything. There’s a reason I’m not bothering with before-and-after pictures on the blog. To the casual visitor, my house doesn’t look changed at all. Only if you’ve seen me (or the BHE) loading the rear of our SUV multiple times a week for drop-offs at the Trinity Mission or the recycling center would you know I’ve been doing anything different.
I want to reduce. I want to have less Stuff. I want less weighing on my mind and filling up my to-do list. I want more time to invest in my children and my other passions, like visiting and hosting friends, writing for my blog and that fiction novel I’ve been talking about for years, going to parks and volunteering at the library.
I know I can DO more if I HAVE less to take up my time.
But I’m at a Standstill
Between the crawling infant and the rambunctious toddler, between being a friend and a wife as well as working on the renovations in our large old house, between the needs of my family and the need for rest, I feel I’ve come to a standstill in my decluttering work.
I know there is much more to do. I cringe when my eyes land on the attic door, knowing full well what lies behind it. Every time I leave the house, there is something in the back of the car that needs to be donated or recycled.
So I know I’m still making progress, but it just doesn’t feel like I’m progressing as fast or as steady as I was.
What’s that line from the tortoise?
It will all happen as it is meant to, through our brain and brawn. We will keep working towards our ideal. It may not be a big project that shows amazing results within hours or days. It may be lots of little projects that will never be seen by the casual eye.
But it will get done. My shoulders can relax as I know I am making progress each day.
Each day, I look to my List of Sevens to do another little something to move us forward. Each day, I paw through at least one box from the attic. Each day, I fill a trash bag or recycling bin with Things we don’t need or are truly trash. Each day, I remember that getting rid of Stuff will not take as long as it did to acquire it all, now that I’ve seen and felt the goodness that comes with becoming unstuffed. Each day, I am grateful for God’s grace, life’s blessings, and how I am physically and mentally able to remove the Stuff to make room for more grace and blessings of a less tangible kind.
Maybe I Need to Spice It Up
Join me. Check out this challenge and think on the reality of it: are you ready to get rid of the excess? Are you emotionally and mentally ready to shed the extra Stuff weighing you down?
If so, send me a message or comment below. We’ll go at it together. We’ll share photos of our successes. We’ll virtually back-pat as more gets taken out of our homes. We’ll give encouragement and challenge each other to take one more step, remove one more Thing, and make one more change that leads us down a cleaner, greener, healthier, happier path through life.
We will WIN this challenge together!
Are you ready to take that step?